Back when I first entered high school I wanted to go after four years of high school. Let me explain. In Haiti high school is five years instead of four. Since Eli and I were ahead, Mom had Eli do an extra year, he only turned 18 the week of his college orientation. We planned on doing the same for me. After Eli left, I heard about his adjustments to college and I started to hit the difficulties of high school, I agreed with mom. I was perfectly content to spend an extra year without all the worries of college, without having to figure out college financial aid forms with dad, without stressing about college grades and scholarships. Without being separated from my parents and without leaving Haiti, my home of 16 years. The longest I have ever been in the US at once is four months.
So this decision was not taken lightly. I lined up the pros and cons. Part of the doors opening was my elder brother, who if not necessarily enthused, is no longer opposed to having me overlap a year with him (Apparently he met some people who overlapped with siblings or relatives, and they all said that they were so busy they didn't actually see each other much.) My good SAT results also motivated the change.
I like Délice. I can see how Mom and Dad will help and teach this community about health, nutrition, and other things. However, I am also a social, competitive person. School wise, I studied a lot for my SAT. My motivation and goal was to compete with different scores and the percentile posted on the internet, also scholarships are competitive, so they were motivation too.
If I stayed I would still learn, probably mature a bit... (I will be turning 17 in February) but I think I can do the same at college. There will be homesickness, but that will happen no matter when I go, and this way Eli will be there, one member of my immediate family.
I decided all this a couple days before Christmas, and spent the day before Christmas Eve, and several days after Christmas, working on my application, with Mom helping and working on my transcript/course description. We took family and senior pictures on New Years Day at the fort.
Talk about fun holidays. But we got it done and sent in, though still working on other college related applications.
Kris & Cory- How do we feel? As you may guess. We know that Anna is ready for the next phase of her life and are excited to see her grow and thrive in college. We will miss her greatly and not just because of her good cooking.
We are grateful for our time together and thank the Lord for our energetic, lovely daughter. Please pray for all of us as we transition through this big change.
2 comments:
I believe you should be an author and write whatever comes to mine !!! With your background you could be very successful and self full filling !!!
Ahhhh!!! So excited and amazed and sad because I’m a mom now and so I imagine this will have it’s difficult moments!
But so proud of you Anna. Cannot believe you are getting ready for college. You are such a remarkable young lady and we know you will take on all these new challenges with courage and strength. Praying for you all!
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